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Do you believe that parents who do not like having an “effeminate” male child or a “masculine” tomboy female daughter should be encouraged and given the okay to medically transition their children? Do you believe that such children, who many times become same sex attracted in adulthood, should NOT be guaranteed the right to go through natural puberty in tact, with fully functional sexual organs, pubertal brain development, and healthy organs, fertility, and the ability to have sexual pleasure? Do you believe that people should be allowed to administer Female Genital Mutilation or clitorectomies? Should societies be allowed to bind the feet of little girls so they cannot walk for the rest of their lives?

I don’t say this lightly, but we are moving in the wrong direction in this country regarding trans medicalization of children and young people. While some of the students I serve who adopt a trans identity are following a socially powerful trend, and others have mental health issues that are expressed through a trans identity, many of the students I serve who identify as trans are likely gay. These young people (and their parents) have internalized homophobia, are uncomfortable with their changing bodies, and have been heavily influenced by online content pushing trans identities, puberty blockers, cross sex hormones, and surgeries. I did old school, no longer in fashion, watchful waiting when my 16 year old son suddenly decided he was trans. I had to dig deep to find anything that examined the developmental issues with the huge rise in trans identifying teens. My son desisted after a year and a half and we have quite a long story, but most of the doctors and therapists administer only affirming care, that is, children are able to access puberty blockers and cross sex hormones with no safeguards or examination of co-morbidities such as autism, self-harm, sexual trauma, mental health diagnoses, internet addiction, or just difficulty managing puberty.

Disappointed with mainstream media and the “progressive” messaging I found in my own party, I had to do my own research in which I found many critical thinking psychoanalysts, doctors, and researchers who were studying the stunning phenomenon, which shows a 5,000% rise in young people suddenly identifying as “trans”. It is still very difficult to get access to the research, as there are almost no solid reviews of the evidence for gender affirming care in the US. Indeed, one that was done at Johns Hopkins was suppressed by the Biden administration itself, due to the issue that the research did not show what was the sought after outcome- that young people are “helped” by such experimental treatments. However, the UK, Norway, Sweden, Finland, and France have done such reviews and have all but banned such treatments for minors. I recommend looking more deeply at the rising number of detransitioners, the research out of Europe, and the poor long term outcomes of people who medically transition, both on their physical and mental health.

The tide is changing, and as a very serious political progressive, I am appalled by the number of people on the left who are not questioning the effects of puberty blockers, cross sex hormones, and invasive surgeries on minors. Without such interventions, most young people grow to be comfortable in their bodies as they develop their frontal lobes, and have real life experiences. It is estimated that between 70-90% of these young people will turn out to be same sex attracted. (See James Cantor’s research). I am very worried that we are confusing gender non-conformity with being “born in the wrong body”, which strikes me as the worst message to send to young people. Radical self-love is important here, and we are potentially taking the opportunity away for gay men and women to live as their authentic fully sexually intact selves.

The big pharma and medical industry connection seems obvious to me, as there is a lot of money to be made when you convince a young person that their body must be hormonally and cosmetically altered. I think we are all going to have a very big wake up call as we see more and more of our young adults suing their doctors and medical centers for the over prescription of gender affirming care. There are several of these cases happening in California as we speak. (See Clementine Breen’s case below).

I suggest reading Jamie Reed’s whistleblowing testimony after working at a gender care clinic in Missouri, as well as her speeches made across numerous state legislatures across the country to give testimony in support of banning experimental medical treatments; Jennifer Bilek on the connection between transhumanism, trans medicine, and profiteers; Leor Sapir of the Manhattan Institute who examines the evidence base for these treatments; Hannah Barnes’ book “Time to think: the Inside Story on the Collapse of the Tavistock’s Gender Service for Children,” Az Hakeem, a psychiatrist who worked exclusively with trans identified people for many years in the U.K., and Stella O’Malley and Sasha Ayad of the podcast, Gender: A Wider Lens, in which the two psychotherapists interview several experts on transitioning medicine, trans medical history, the researchers of the Dutch Protocol, trans identified people, and detransitioners. There is a very good documentary on six detransitioners who tell their stories of being misdiagnosed and rushed through gender altering treatments which have left deep physical and psychological scars. Several of the above experts and more are also interviewed. The documentary is titled “No Way Back”. I am a personal acquaintance of one of the detransitioners in the documentary.

There are only a few articles that have been allowed to be published in the mainstream US press, but I am linking one article that came out in the Wall Street Journal. There are several articles that have been published in Reuters and the Economist as well. There are also many stories of detransitioners, some of whom are willing and able to go public with their lawsuits and their stories: For example, here in California, Clementine Breene, who was given the full gambit of “affirmative care” which included puberty blockers, cross sex hormones, and a double mastectomy, all by the age of 14.

We really need to copy what our European friends are doing and slow down this diagnosis. The puberty blockers, cross sex hormones, and surgeries often lead to bone density issues, cancer, heart attacks, liver/kidney functions, urinary tract issues, sterility, loss of orgasm, and a much higher rate of suicide and poor mental health overall. I hope you and your readers will give some consideration to the deeper story and medical scandal that is currently hurting our gay and neurodivergent youth. Some links and resources below:

Jamie Reed’s powerful testimony earlier this month in Wisconsin, who states that the gender transition protocol is homophobic, and based on regressive gender stereotypes. Jamie Reed is a left of Bernie Democrat (like me) whose wife identified as trans for 13 years. https://youtu.be/F8jdea-LXG8si=Igby9UMoYzsAkPvg

https://archive.ph/2023.06.19-040359/https://www.wsj.com/amp/articles/u-s-becomes-transgender-care-outlier-as-more-in-europe-urge-caution-6c70b5e0

Clementine Breen, detransitioner lawsuit: https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna183815

Democrats for an Informed Approach to Gender

LGB Courage Coalition

Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans

ROGD Boys

Lisa Selin Davis: Tomboy

My list of articles, books, and videos: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1cs8GiekMYZO6ARW5EREYl46uJ6lsx3WtkzMyj6CEj4g/mobilebasic

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Leslie MacGregor's avatar

This is really the zombie apocalypse because people like Bentley have no beating human heart.

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